Desire is a liberating forceDr. Ann Kelley and Shadeen Francis, LMFT unpack the intricate nature of desire, extending beyond just the sexual realm. They unpack the challenges in identifying true desires, the role of embodiment in self-awareness, and the key distinction between wanting and liking. Together they discuss intimacy, self-discovery and communication – with an emphasis on the need for negotiation and authentic connection in sexual experiences.“The simplest of all luxuries is the freedom to pursue your pleasure.” – Shadeen FrancisTime Stamps for Beyond Sex: Understanding DesireAbout our Guest – Shadeen Francis, LMFT, CSTShadeen Francis is a licensed marriage and family psychotherapist and a board-certified sex therapist. Her expertise spans the domains of mental health, emotional intelligence, and the intersection of sexual wellness and social justice. A sought-after voice in her field, Shadeen has been featured on major networks including ABC, NBC, and CBS, and has been the subject matter expert for prominent brands such as Essence, Bumble, Tinder, and Teen Vogue. Shadeen’s work extends beyond the therapy room, influencing nationally implemented curricula, global media strategies, and public health policies. Known for her signature brand of warmth and humor, Shadeen’s work is inspired by her commitment to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure.Resources for Beyond Sex: Understanding Desireshadeenfrancis.com – Shadeen’s website, resources, and other informationhello@shadeenfrancis.com – The best way to contact Shadeen@shadeenfrancis – Shadeen’s Instagram handleGet your copy of Secure Relating here!!Interested in joining our exclusive community? Get early access and discounts to things we produce, plus a totally ad-free private feed. In addition, receive exclusive episodes recorded just for you. Sign up for our premium Neuronerd plan!! Click here!!Find Upcoming Events hereFeatured event: Ann and Sue are deep diving into clinical application of their work at the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium – March 20-23, 2025. It’s an incredible conference – they’d love to see you there!Rethinking Attachment – Using the Attachment Spectrum in Clinical PracticePlease support our sponsors for this episode – they keep our podcast free and accessible to all! Coffee alternative powered by mushrooms! Right now, you can get 20% off plus a FREE starter kit when you shop exclusively Piquelife.com/tuMore goodness for your body and mind – Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/TUIntegrative Attachment Therapy Course InformationTherapists: THIS is our recommended course experience for the most comprehensive training on attachment out there. Use our link for a discount!Thanks for stopping by & for being on this journey with us!