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Whether you're questioning who you're attracted to or wondering why someone incredible on paper leaves you feeling nothing below the waist, you're not alone. In this episode, I unpack the messy, confusing space between wanting someone and wanting to build a life with them—and why those two things don't always line up.From a woman who's always identified as straight but can't stop fantasizing about women, to a listener who's been getting nothing but one-arm hugs after six dates, I get into the questions most people are too afraid to ask out loud. I also share what the science actually says about attraction—including why your post-gym crush might not be as real as it feels, and what your birth control could be doing to your "type."In this episode, you'll learn: • Why putting a label on your sexuality might be the last thing you need to do right now—and what to try instead • The conversation that can save you months (or years) of wondering where you stand with someone who won't make a move • What to do when you and your partner are both waiting for the other person to take control in bedMore Dr. Emily: • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).• Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.• Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Head to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply today!• Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure• Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube• Let’s text: Sign up here• Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.Timestamps:25:31 - How to rekindle the spark after years together Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices