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Susan Forbes | Volleyball Recruiting
10: She Decommitted… and It Changed Everything (Part 2, Real Recruiting Stories)
14 minutes Posted Sep 2, 2025 at 8:00 am.
– The muddy middle: why recruiting rarely feels perfect02:30 – The lake + island analogy: what the process is really like05:00 – Why the “mud” creates doubt and second-guessing06:15 – Meet Kelsey: her junior year recruiting journey08:30 – First full-ride offer vs. holding out for her dream school10:30 – Committing to her second-choice school11:00 – When her coach left — and why she decommitted12:30 – How roster movement creates new opportunities13:45 – The dream school reappears (and makes an offer)15:00 – Why the mud isn’t failure, it’s the middle16:00 – Encouragement for athletes in the messy middleJoin Susan for a monthly recruiting lesson January-June inside the Volleyball Recruiting School! Become a subscriber here. Or register for January's class all about highlight film here!Click here for a discount on our go-to, and the hands-down best and most affordable Recruiting Tool + Software we recommend every baller has to increase her efficiency in all that she does 👉🏼 PRODUCTIVE RECRUITWant to support your baller in getting her process started and have an experienced volleyball recruiting advisor walk her through it? Enroll in RECRUIT READY: LAUNCH 🚀Need help getting unstuck in the recruiting process? Apply for a RECRUITING INTENSIVE.Connect with Susan: Check out the website: www.nxtvb.com Follow on Instagram: @hey.susankP.S. If you’re an athlete with big goals, a parent who wants to support the journey, or a coach who cares deeply about your players, this podcast was made for you. Hit subscribe and come grow with us.
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In Part 2 of the Real Recruiting Stories mini-series, Susan shares Kelsey’s journey,  a rollercoaster recruiting process full of setbacks, detours, and unexpected turns that ultimately led her exactly where she was meant to be.From committing to her second-choice school, to decommitting after a coaching change, to finally landing at the program she loved all along, Kelsey’s story proves that the muddy middle isn’t a sign of failure — it’s just part of the process.If you’ve ever felt stuck, uncertain, or tempted to give up, this episode will encourage you to keep going. Because, as Susan reminds us, success in recruiting always goes to the girl who wants it the most.Chapters00:00 – The muddy middle: why recruiting rarely feels perfect02:30 – The lake + island analogy: what the process is really like05:00 – Why the “mud” creates doubt and second-guessing06:15 – Meet Kelsey: her junior year recruiting journey08:30 – First full-ride offer vs. holding out for her dream school10:30 – Committing to her second-choice school11:00 – When her coach left — and why she decommitted12:30 – How roster movement creates new opportunities13:45 – The dream school reappears (and makes an offer)15:00 – Why the mud isn’t failure, it’s the middle16:00 – Encouragement for athletes in the messy middleJoin Susan for a monthly recruiting lesson January-June inside the Volleyball Recruiting School! Become a subscriber here. Or register for January's class all about highlight film here!Click here for a discount on our go-to, and the hands-down best and most affordable Recruiting Tool + Software we recommend every baller has to increase her efficiency in all that she does 👉🏼 PRODUCTIVE RECRUITWant to support your baller in getting her process started and have an experienced volleyball recruiting advisor walk her through it? Enroll in RECRUIT READY: LAUNCH 🚀Need help getting unstuck in the recruiting process? Apply for a RECRUITING INTENSIVE.Connect with Susan: Check out the website: www.nxtvb.com Follow on Instagram: @hey.susankP.S. If you’re an athlete with big goals, a parent who wants to support the journey, or a coach who cares deeply about your players, this podcast was made for you. Hit subscribe and come grow with us.