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You can have the skills, the highlight film, and the emails — but if your mindset isn’t right, none of it sticks.In this powerful conversation, Susan brings on Desi, a certified mindset and performance coach and former college middle blocker, to break down what most athletes miss about confidence, handling disappointment, and navigating the mental side of recruiting.They talk about why burying your emotions backfires, how to actually process disappointment (instead of pretending it’s fine), and why learning to fall in love with the process will change everything — on and off the court.Whether you’re a top recruit or just trying to make your club team, this episode is a must-listen if you want to play your best under pressure and build the skills that last far beyond volleyball.Chapters:00:00 – Meet Desi + why mindset matters02:00 – Desi’s story: from headcase to certified mindset coach05:30 – The difference between venting and real change08:00 – Why positivity alone isn’t enough10:00 – How to acknowledge disappointment without losing hope13:30 – The power of asking why you aren’t a 10 16:00 – The 50/50 principle + how it applies to recruiting 19:30 – Understanding dopamine highs and lows 22:00 – Why celebrating small wins trains your brain for success 25:00 – How to prep before talking with coaches 28:00 – Getting out of “prove mode” and back to having fun 32:00 – Why coaches love athletes who create positive energy 35:00 – Final thoughts: focus on who you become, not just what you achieveJoin Susan for a monthly recruiting lesson January-June inside the Volleyball Recruiting School! Become a subscriber here. Or register for January's class all about highlight film here!Click here for a discount on our go-to, and the hands-down best and most affordable Recruiting Tool + Software we recommend every baller has to increase her efficiency in all that she does 👉🏼 PRODUCTIVE RECRUITWant to support your baller in getting her process started and have an experienced volleyball recruiting advisor walk her through it? Enroll in RECRUIT READY: LAUNCH 🚀Need help getting unstuck in the recruiting process? Apply for a RECRUITING INTENSIVE.Connect with Susan: Check out the website: www.nxtvb.com Follow on Instagram: @hey.susankP.S. If you’re an athlete with big goals, a parent who wants to support the journey, or a coach who cares deeply about your players, this podcast was made for you. Hit subscribe and come grow with us.