In this coaching session, Jillian helps a listener untangle what he thought was anxious attachment and reveals what may actually be happening instead: he’s getting emotionally invested before a real relationship has even begun. She breaks down the difference between pursuing and chasing, why texting can create a false sense of intimacy, and how to stop wasting energy on people who aren’t truly showing up. This episode is also a powerful reminder that the more alive, engaged, and fulfilled you feel in your own life, the less likely you are to confuse attention with connection.Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The Conscious WomanSubmit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on:Instagram: @jillianonloveThreads: @jilliantureckiYouTube: @jillian.tureckiEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon~~Follow Jillian Turecki on:Instagram: @jilliantureckiTikTok: @jillian.tureckiX: @JillianTureckiVisit her website at jillianturecki.com~~Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.To advertise on the show, contact us!Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices