What if the reason your relationship feels so painful is because you’re loving someone’s potential instead of who they actually are? In this episode, Jillian unpacks why trying to fix or change a partner creates resentment, pressure, and emotional burnout. She explores emotional capacity, radical self-honesty, and how to communicate your needs without turning love into a project.Join the Conscious Woman waitlist - ⁠https://jillianturecki.com/waitlist⁠Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The Conscious WomanSubmit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book~~Follow the show on:Instagram: @jillianonloveEmail the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon~~Follow Jillian Turecki on:Instagram: @jilliantureckiTikTok: @jillian.tureckiX: @JillianTureckiVisit her website at jillianturecki.com~~Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.To advertise on the show, contact us!Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices