Know Thyself
Know Thyself
André Duqum
E82 - Dr. Ramani Durvasula, #1 Narcissism Expert: The Harsh Reality Of Toxic People & Setting Boundaries
1 hour 37 minutes Posted Feb 6, 2024 at 2:00 pm.
Intro
Defining & Identifying Narcissism
Why This Develops in People
Different Types of Narcissism
How Our Society Rewards Narcissism
How Certain Types Develop
At What Age Narcissism Begins
The Internal Reality of a Narcissist
Common Traits of Narcissistic Abuse
Why Love Bombing is Toxic
The True Meaning of Gaslighting
Triangulation & Cycles of Manipulation
When Self Esteem Becomes Too Much
Cultural Distinctions & Healing Family Trauma
Breaking Free of a Narcissistic Relationship
Will They Ever Change?
Is It You?
Supporting a Friend in an Abusive Relationship
Becoming Aware of Your Own Narcissism
The Sad Reality of Being a Narcissist
Spiritual Narcissism
Final Thoughts
Conclusion
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Today we are joined by clinical psychologist and narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasala. Dr. Ramani unpacks narcissistic personality disorder, defining types of narcissism, how it’s diagnosed, and where this originates. She shares the implications of the extreme side of this disorder, discussing the dark reality of narcissistic abuse in relationships, love-bombing, triangulation, and gas-lighting. She provides advice for anyone stuck in a cycle of abuse or supporting a friend through this process. She reveals the sad truth of abuse: that most people never change.
This is a great episode for anyone wanting to better understand this disorder and get out of a cycle of abuse.
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Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, CA, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is an author of several books including Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist, and “Don’t You Know Who I Am?”: How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility. The focus of Dr. Durvasula’s clinical, academic and consultative work is the etiology and impact of narcissism and high-conflict, entitled, antagonistic personality styles on human relationships, mental health, and societal expectations. Her work has been featured at SXSW, TEDx, Red Table Talk, the Today Show, and Investigation Discovery. You can also find her on YouTube where she has accumulated millions of views on her videos discussing narcissism on her successful channel, and on social media @DoctorRamani. Now she will be adding the role of host to her resume as she launches her new podcast, Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani, a show that focuses on narcissism and its impact on relationships.
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