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Antoine and his wife are swingers who have done it all including being poly and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when him and his wife decided to start swinging, the first unicorn they hooked up with and what they tried after that, the first couple they hooked up with and what they did with them, their first swinger party they attended and what went down, why they preferred swinger bars to pick people up as opposed to apps, the interracial couple they met and the drama that ensued afterwards, their first hotel party they attended and exactly what went down, how and why his wife prefers black guys, why they have never been to a swingers club, how and why he became a bull for couples and what he loves about it, how and when they started playing solo and what he enjoys about it and why his wife wasn’t into it at firs, the first guy his wife wound up playing solo with and what went down, how he felt at first when she started playing solo, their six year poly relationship they were in with a woman and why being poly is no longer on the table plus a whole lot more.



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1201 - Antoine and his Wife are Swingers who Have Done it All Including Being Poly

Layla called in again to answer more questions and talk all about d*** fingers, rimming, cum and more. Tune in to hear both Layla and Kathy answer the following questions; what are the most common reasons women stop having sex with their partners, do women dig uncircumcised d***s, do women prefer length or girth or both, do they like to be fisted, are women into rimming, how do women feel about water sports, do girls really enjoy giving head, do they like to swallow and if so do they like cum, do women enjoy kissing a guy after he’s gone down on her, do girls mind if guy cleans up his cum from sex plus a whole lot more. REPEAT, originally aired 4/24. Part one is episode #804



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1200 -  GIRL TALK: D*** Fingers, Rimming, Cum Talk and More with Layla

Imagine this: your partner sits you down and says they want to open your marriage…

Not for a real-life person.

But for their AI companion.

Sounds like a Black Mirror episode, right? But it’s real.

In today’s episode, we’re diving into the wild, complicated, and very real intersection of AI and relationships.

From romantic connections with chatbots to emotional venting with AI companions, technology is evolving faster than most of us are prepared for. And it’s already showing up in our love lives in some unexpected (and sometimes unsettling) ways.

Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or straight-up concerned, this is a conversation every couple needs to have.




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The Reddit story that left us both speechless (yes, he wants a throuple with his AI girlfriend 😳)



  
Why saying “I don’t use AI” isn’t a real boundary anymore



  
The emotional intimacy trap: how AI companions are starting to meet very human needs



  
Why venting to AI can quietly erode real-life connection



  
The most important questions to ask your partner now about tech, boundaries, and connection



  
How to use AI intentionally to strengthen your relationship (not threaten it)



  
Real-life examples of how AI can either divide or deepen your bond





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In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily tackles one of the biggest barriers to great sex: fear. From fear of rejection to body image anxieties, this episode explores how our sexual fears hold us back and provides practical strategies for overcoming them. Dr. Emily opens with the fundamental truth that fear is often "false evidence appearing real" - we create rules around what we're afraid of and then live by them, preventing ourselves from having the sex we truly want and deserve.



Throughout the episode, Dr. Emily addresses common sexual fears from farting during sex to penis size anxieties to performance worries, emphasizing that we're all perfectionists when it comes to sex despite reality being much messier and more human. The episode concludes with the empowering message that facing our fears is the path to becoming our own best sexual advocate. When we ask for what we want authentically, we either get our needs met or gain valuable information about compatibility, because we all deserve pleasure and shouldn't put ourselves last in our own sexual lives.



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6:43 - Period Sex Anxiety

17:50 - Fear of Rejection in the Bedroom

23:25 - Sexual Trauma & PTSD

32:38 - Dreams About Your Ex: What They Really Mean

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How to Stop Sexual Fears from Killing Your Sex Life

Send us a text Hedonism II Part 1: Dan Spins Beats, Lacy Gets Fisted &amp; The Party Begins | Episode 206 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take listeners along on their trip to the legendary Hedonism II resort in Negril, Jamaica, for their Young Lifestylers Week takeover in partnership with Topless Travel. After a rocky start with delayed flights and some creative airplane “repairs,” the duo finally arrives in par...

Hedonism II Part 1: Dan Spins Beats, Lacy Gets Fisted & The Party Begins

Randy’s wife hotwifes for him with guys he knows but they don’t know he knows they’re hooking up and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was into seeing his partner with someone else, when he brought it up to his wife and how she reacted at first, how he told her she wanted her to hook up with people he knew, the first guy she wound up having sex with that they knew and exactly what went down, the second time she hooked up with him and exactly what went down that time, how he eventually wanted her to play without him, the next guy he knew that she “cheated” on him with, how and why he digs the guys not knowing that he knows, how she slept with his coworker at a work event and exactly what went down between them, how the coworker reacted when he saw he afterwards, how long that hook up with his co-worker lasted, how and why she is now looking for a long term boyfriend and how he feels about it plus a whole lot more. 



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1199 - Randy's Wife Hotwifes for him with Guys he Knows but They Don't Know he Knows They're Hooking-up

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Feminine Touch  (Female x Female) (18+ NSFW)

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A Steamy Vacation ( Female x Male) (18+ NSFW)

In this episode of Hump Day Quickies, we sit down with Jayson from That Other Lifestyle to explore the wild, wonderful, and sometimes challenging world of swinging. We kick things off with a nod to bananas foster… yes, that decadent dessert somehow sets the stage for a night of adventure??? Jayson shares his journey, starting with why he and his wife opted for a no-swap approach initially and how she eventually took the lead in their explorations. Their first separate room experience was a thrilling milestone, leaving them both feeling good but sparking new questions about navigating the lifestyle.
We dive into the nitty-gritty, from Jayson’s first squirt experience (and the surprise of no warning, should that be a thing?) to the realities of second rounds and the pressure to perform. Jayson gets shares the “bus rule” (a must-hear concept where both partners’ performance is key) and the stop rule, emphasizing the importance of being direct with your boundaries. We also tackle the “must get hard” pressure and the internalization of performance challenges. 
The episode touches on the newbie experience and ask “when does a newbie stop being a newbie?” and the sweet realization that thinking of your partner can ground you amidst the chaos. Jayson reflects on the “hoe phase” (or phases!) and the importance of prioritizing your partner, even when the pressure is on. We also discuss whether separate rooms might complicate things for newcomers and how to know when your rules truly matter.
While we don’t deliver direct advice, there’s so much to learn from these stories. We even discuss if sex is really just 10% of the lifestyle! Jayson wraps up by plugging his podcast, That Other Lifestyle. Tune in for laughs, insights, and a few “oh, wow” moments that’ll spice up your midweek!
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After a fun group dinner, the Mardi Gras party cranked things up before a steamy playroom experience with a Michigan couple turned up the heat even more.

That Other Lifestyle Exposed: Jayson’s Hottest Swinger Bombshells - Season 5 - Episode 19

This week, Elle, Vee and repeat guest Athena spil all the messy, hilarious, and downright disastrous sex stories you never hear about. From sneezing out cum and fishing out lost condoms to broken furniture, tampon mishaps, and anal surprises, nothing is off-limits. We share our own awkward moments along with wild tales from the community that prove sex fails are equal parts mortifying and funny. Because at the end of the day, sex is messy, bodies are human, and sometimes the best aftercare is...

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134: Sex Mishap Confessions: From Sneezing Cum to Vomiting on a Dick to Almost Arrested!

UTIs: the ultimate party crasher in the world of sex and relationships. But what's the real deal behind these pesky infections?

Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the wild world of urinary tract infections with Megan Henken, Co-Founder and Chief Marketing Officer of MyUTI. With over two decades of experience in diagnostics and biotech, Megan's on a mission to transform women's health through innovation, education, and empathy.

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• UTI myths busted: separating fact from fiction and tackling the shame and stigma surrounding vaginal health

• How to ID UTI symptoms and what might feel like a UTI but isn't (psst... it's not just about the burning sensation)

• The scoop on Micro Plasma, BV, and other mysterious conditions that might feel like a UTI

• Home remedies to keep UTIs at bay and promote vaginal wellness

• How hormones and aging affect UTI risk - and what you can do about it

Megan shares her personal journey of struggling with recurrent UTIs and how it sparked her passion for improving care for women. As a healthcare marketing executive and entrepreneur, she's led the commercial launch of over 20 products, generating $93M+ in revenue.

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#447 The UTI, BV, and Vaginal Health Survival Guide

Ever wondered why you have a certain kink? Or if it’s OK to fantasize about someone else during sex? Or maybe you’ve been curious about cuckolding, breeding kinks, or pegging… but didn’t know who to ask.

Well some of you asked us! And today, we’re answering your questions about kinks and fantasies.

From the psychology of desire to navigating mismatches with your partner, we’re tackling the wild, the vulnerable, and the deeply human side of sexual exploration (as always, with zero shame and plenty of insight).

Whether you’re curious, cautious, or kinky AF, this episode is packed with permission, perspective, and practical advice.

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     - Why we have kinks (and why you don’t need a “reason” to justify them)
     - The most common sexual fantasies and what they really mean
     - The difference between a fantasy and a desire (and how to safely explore both)
     - Can you fantasize about someone else during sex with your partner?
     - What to do when your fantasy doesn’t match your partner’s
     - How to explore pegging, role reversal, and butt stuff (without shame)
     - The sex club fantasy (that’s not about group sex)
     - Navigating gender play, lingerie, and makeup with confidence

🔗 Links & Resources

     - Episode 53: How To Spice It Up In The Bedroom: Exploring Kink For Beginners 👉🏻 https://vmtherapy.com/episode53
     - Justin Lehmiller’s Tell Me What You Want (Science of Sexual Fantasies) 👉🏻 https://sexualhealthalliance.com/justin-lehmiller-science-of-fantasy
     - Episode 213: What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3 (Doggy Style, Aging, Leg Hair & More!) 👉🏻https://vmtherapy.com/episode213

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08:27 – 7 most common fantasies 
11:25 – Difference between kinks and fantasy
19:03 – Cuckolding
25:30 – Fantasizing about other people during secs
30:15 – Breeding kink
32:32 – Sex club with spouse
39:15 – MMF threesome vs. MFF
43:46 – Male anal play & pegging


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E221: How to Explore Your Kinks Without Shame (Cuckolding, Pegging, Breeding, and more)

Get out your nuts, ‘cause we’re about to crack them! Mike and Kyle know nothing about ballet, so they invite Kiyon Ross, Associate Artistic Director of the Pacific Northwest Ballet, to share his expertise.
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In this enlightening episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily reunites with the legendary Carol Queen, sexologist, author, and co-founder of the Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco. Carol, who's been Good Vibrations' staff sexologist for over 30 years and has been speaking publicly about sexuality for 50 years, returns for an essential conversation about revitalizing routine sex, navigating physical challenges in intimacy, and finding your sexual community.

This episode tackles everything from making masturbation part of your self-care routine to creative solutions for mobility challenges in the bedroom. Carol breaks down how sexual discourse has evolved from underground feminist publications to mainstream media, while emphasizing that there's no "normal" sex life everyone must follow. We explore practical techniques for spicing up routine encounters and dive into the importance of finding consensual spaces for all types of sexual expression.

We take listener calls from Jess, who wants to elevate his hookup routine with temperature play and atmosphere, Tommy, who's seeking advice on approaching older women, Jake, who's looking for safe spaces to explore exhibitionist fantasies, and John, whose wife's knee problems require creative positioning solutions. Carol's decades of experience shine through as she emphasizes that variety and difference make sexuality beautiful, not something to be ashamed of or conform to arbitrary standards.





0:00 - Introduction

1:20 - Caller Question: Spicing Up Gay Male Hookups & Avoiding Boredom

7:13 - Dating Older Women: How to Start Conversations & Build Confidence

10:05 - Preventing Recurring UTIs: Practical Tips & Product Recommendations

13:45 - Interview with Sexologist Carol Queen: 50 Years of Sexual Liberation

16:15 - How Sexual Discourse Has Changed: From Underground to Mainstream

20:32 - The History of "Pegging" & Educational Porn vs Entertainment

31:14 - Sex Positions for Physical Challenges: Knee Problems & Alternatives

41:03 - Quick Fire Questions with Carol Queen

How to Explore Your Sexual Fantasies Without Shame | ft. Sexologist Carol Queen

Ryan Kramer was born through an anonymous sperm donor in 1990. By the time he was 2 years old, he already had some big questions about his identity — and the desire to find answers. Ryan’s search led him to become the first donor-conceived person to find his parent through DNA testing. He also co-founded the Donor Sibling Registry, an organization that’s helped connect tens of thousands of donor-conceived people with biological family. He tells Anita about meeting many of his own genetic relatives and what this journey has taught him about the meaning of those relationships.

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- Ryan Kramer, co-founder of the Donor Sibling Registry and the first donor-conceived person to find his parent through DNA testing

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One Sperm Donor, 31 Half Siblings & A Long Search For Identity

SEXY TUESDAY: Wide Open Spaces ( Female x Female) (18+ NSFW)

Kay is in an open, poly relationship with her much older boyfriend and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she brought swinging up to her first boyfriend, the first couple they hooked up with and exactly what went down, all the couples and crazy experiences they had together while married, how she blossomed sexually after her divorce and started going to orgies solo, the first threesome she had with two guys, her first dp (double penetration) and how she felt about it afterwards, how she met her current boyfriend at an orgy, how and why the first time they had sex it wasn’t that great, their first vanilla date and how and why she fell for him, how he copped to being into guys and how she felt about it, the guy they hooked up with in Germany and exactly what went down during their MMF hook-up, how she felt seeing him with another guy, how that same night her guy made her squirt, how BDSM allowed her to feel more pleasure but why she doesn’t need it anymore, how he digs watching her with other guys but still gets jealous sometimes, how she defines them as poly and why they’re open like that even though they don’t seem like they should be plus a whole lot more.



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1198 - Kay is in an Open, Poly Relationship with her Much Older Boyfriend

"Not generous." That is what a gay man puts on his app profile to signify that he is not interested in sex workers. Is this offensive? 

Hear the heart-warming tale of how a woman spiced up her sex life by creating an Onlyfans account for only one fan- her husband. 

A gay man loves going to "gay island." It's a small gathering space in a river where queer folks can be together in a chill, clothing-optional way. But guess who is invading Gay Island! Straight families bring their kids to bask in the homo glow. Dan welcomes queer artist and writer Leo Herrera, to talk about the importance of gay spaces, and then they go into a deep dive about AI porn, and sex robots. There's a little on the Micro and the whole thing is on the Magnum. 

And, a man has been married thrice. For each wife, he reversed his previous vasectomy and then got a new one, without ever telling them that he'd done this. Should he come clean about all the vasectomies to his current wife? And seriously, what is up with this guy? 



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Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s